“But he just wants to say hi!”

by 7 Jan, 2025

As a dog trainer specialising in high-energy dogs with big feelings, I understand the unique challenges that come with training these passionate souls! 

One common challenge many owners face, especially when their dog enters adolescence, is the sudden and intense desire to greet every dog they encounter.

While this behaviour might seem harmless or even endearing, it’s important to remember that just because your dog wants to interact with every dog they see, doesn’t mean it’s always a good idea!

In fact, there are several reasons why controlling these interactions is crucial for both your dog’s safety and the well-being of other dogs and their owners.

The Adolescence Factor: Feelings About Other Dogs

Adolescence in dogs is often a time of big feelings, and these feelings can be particularly pronounced when it comes to interactions with other dogs. Your dog may suddenly become fixated on greeting every dog they come across, whether they are calm and friendly or more reserved. For herding breeds, this can be especially intense, as they are naturally predisposed to stare and focus on movement!

But just because your dog has strong feelings doesn’t mean their approach to every dog is safe, sensible, or even welcome.

The Importance of Control and Polite Interactions

As a dog trainer, I’m all for dogs interacting with others while out on walks or at the park. Socialising with different dogs can be an important part of a dog’s development and overall well-being. However, the key to positive interactions is control and teaching your dog how to greet other dogs politely.

Without proper training and control, the wrong approach to the wrong dog can quickly turn into an uncomfortable or even dangerous situation. Some dogs may not appreciate the enthusiasm of a young, overly excited dog, and this can lead to stress or aggressive behaviour. The last thing you want is for your dog to get into a confrontation or for another dog to feel threatened.

Can You Control the Situation?

Before you allow your dog to approach other dogs, it’s important to ask yourself:

  1. Can I call my dog away from the situation if needed?
    • A well-trained dog should be able to focus on you even in the presence of distractions. This is essential, as it gives you the ability to control your dog’s actions and prevent any unwanted or unsafe interactions.
  2. Can I redirect their attention to something more appropriate if they become too fixated on another dog?
    • Teaching your dog to calmly walk past or ignore other dogs without rushing toward them can be invaluable. This is especially important in busy areas where interactions with other dogs are frequent.
  3. Is my dog going to be a problem for the other dog or their owner?
    • Not all dogs enjoy meeting new dogs, and not all dog owners are comfortable with letting their dog approach others. Be respectful of these boundaries to avoid putting yourself, your dog, or other people in an uncomfortable position.

How to Train for Polite Dog Interactions

So, what can you do to ensure your dog behaves politely around other dogs? Here are a few tips to get started:

  • Teach a solid recall: This is one of the most important behaviours for any dog to know, but it’s especially critical for those with a strong drive to meet others. Practicing recall in different environments will help your dog learn to return to you, even when other dogs are around.
  • Reinforce calm behaviour: Reward your dog for staying calm when another dog is nearby. Use treats and praise to reinforce that good behaviour is more rewarding than rushing toward every dog.
  • Work on leash manners: A dog that pulls on the leash to get to other dogs is hard to control. Use positive reinforcement to teach your dog to walk nicely on a leash, with their attention focused on you instead of other dogs.
  • Set up controlled meet-and-greets: If you know your dog has a strong desire to meet other dogs, try to set up controlled interactions with dogs that are well-mannered and social. This can help teach your dog how to behave appropriately when greeting others.

Conclusion: Why It’s Worth the Effort

Training your dog to control their impulses and interact politely with other dogs is an investment in their long-term well-being. It ensures that they can enjoy safe, positive interactions with other dogs and that you remain in control of any situation that arises.

By fostering polite behaviour and encouraging positive experiences, you’re helping your dog become a well-rounded, confident, and considerate companion. This not only strengthens your bond with your dog but also makes your walks, trips to the park, and outings much more enjoyable for both of you.

If you’re struggling with your dog’s behaviour or need extra guidance on training for better dog-to-dog interactions, don’t hesitate to reach out! As a trainer specialising in high-energy dogs, I’m here to help you navigate these challenges with tailored training methods that will work for you and your dog.

 

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